From a Dad to His Dad


It’s time I said thanks for being my dad

No, not just ’cause you’re the only one I’ve had

‘Cause over the years my sincere appreciation

Has grown to be more than just an estimation

For of certain memories, which never seem to fade

It’s just my perception that’s changed, of sacrifices made

For since I too have tread the path of a dad

I can no longer view you from the eyes of a lad.

Yes, it’s more than genes that make a father

Otherwise we’d have just said, ‘Why bother?’

Why bother sacrifice or try to inspire?

Especially when teens their dads try to fire?

So an overdue ‘thank you’ for when I was a pain

You endured through those years without going insane

OK maybe you did flip, a time, maybe two

But I can understand, ’cause I’ve been there too

Yes, dads don’t get the credit that they really deserve

But I think in Heaven there will be a big reserve

Where there will be ‘thank-you’s and lots of understanding

For those heartbreaks and sacrifices– for performances outstanding

But a portion I’m acknowledging now, while we’re still here

‘though the half that you’ve done, I don’t know, I fear

‘Though it’s not much, it’s my way

To to my dad, to say, ‘Happy Father’s Day!’

[Yep, that's me, with my dad-- circa 1953]

2 comments to From a Dad to His Dad

  • I Bruce love and miss you, and DaD. wish i had wrote that so cought up in my own life did not even call dad for fathers day miss him so much would love to see him soon. being the youngest feel like i have missed out on so much. sometimes it seems like i am just getting my life in order. have been going to church at the va hospital. i willsay a prayer. that we will see one another soon. stay in touch Love Drew

  • admin

    Thanks Drew– I love and miss you too. It’s been so long! I’d like to visit the States as soon as possible. I’m saving for a trip with Andrew (he’s 13 now) so he can meet his family. It’s been ten years since he came to Asia. It might still be a couple years, since we’d have so many folks to see and they’re so spread out– but we’ll get there. Thanks, also, for your prayers.

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