Mumbai Christmas Memories

Following the news of the recent terrorist attacks in Mumbai, India, my mind was flooded with memories of walking those very streets and entering the train station and hotels pictured in the news.

This same flood of memories happened to me some months ago, when a separate series of bombing racked that city– for we once sang at one of the bombed hotels. Although it has been over twenty years since the five years I spent in India with my family, the memory of a particular Christmas Eve has never left me.

Several of my own children, plus a couple others, had finished the second of two thirty-minute sets of Christmas songs in the lobby of an international hotel. We asked the children, “Well, should we go?”

“No, please, one more time.”

The faces of international airline crews checking into the hotel may have had something to do with their wanting to stay. The crews looked tired and uninspired as they entered– forced to spend Christmas day away from home and loved ones as there were almost no flights out on December 25. However, their expressions quickly passed to surprise, warm relief and brightness as they stopped and even sang along.

The interaction between the performers and the audience created an electric, energy-filled atmosphere that seemed to sustain us– fuel poured on our motivation to keep going– spreading the oft ignored true meaning of Christmas. ‘One more time’ repeated itself throughout the evening– just as it had every day for a week or more. The children would seem to come to the end of their strength, but would suggest, “Can we just drink another lemon-water* and go one more time?”

(*Highly carbonated bitter-tasting bottled mineral water was usually the only safe drink available– but a pinch of salt took out some of the carbonation and some lemon and a spoon of sugar made it palatable.)

Another special memory of that evening occurred when we noticed that a businessman seated across the lobby was gently sobbing. An member of our team who approached him heard him saying, “They’re so good; and I’m so bad.” He explained that he was moved by the pure love that he could see in the children’s performance and then prayed with our co-worker to receive God’s Christmas gift– Jesus– into his heart.

Our personal remembrances, fun and enjoyment are also important and have their place as we celebrate Christmas, but by focusing on opportunities to share God’s precious gift of love to the world– our own joy is multiplied. As in Saint Francis’ prayer– it is in giving that we truly receive.

I pray that you have a wonderfully happy Christmas dear friends –

With love, Bruce

(Photos circa 1987 of my children: Ruth, Phil, Priya, Brant, Chloe and Amy)

P.S. I’ve posted some photos updating my current location and activities here:

December Activities Photos on Picasa

Not Just Another Christmas

(Photo: Our children sharing Christmas songs and dance)

I enjoy comparing my own culture’s holidays with Japan’s– and I try to learn what the various cultural events and seasons represent to Japanese individuals and families.

Christmas in many parts of the world is merely a commercial holiday. Similarly, in Japan, it’s a label for the season when people spend their bonuses and have year-end parties.

The New Year, however, is much more important– and an important family observance– as is, to somewhat the same extent, the Summer Obon Festival.

Perhaps the most memorable holiday for Japanese, is not really a holiday, but a season– when the cherry trees blossom, generally occurring around the last week of March, depending on latitude and altitude. wikipedia: Sakura– cherry blossoms / Hanami – cherry blossom viewing

The Sakura season combines some attributes of our Christmas and New Year–like the Chinese Lunar New Year– what Communist China prefers to call “Spring Festival’– The end of March in Japan marks the beginning of the school year and is also when many contracts end– so workers are transferred, student go off to school, friends say ‘goodbye’, or meet new friends– often at various kinds of parties or picnics held under the blooming cherry trees– or as couples strolling under them.

As they’re repeated, these times bring back memories of the ones that have gone before– Christmas holds a similar place in my memory– marking the passage of years.

What do I remember? Well, nearly all my adult memories of Christmas– besides special memories of my children’s enjoyment– are action-packed– usually joining my children and others in reaching out to as many as possible during this special time of sharing– materially, emotionally or spiritually.

Just a few days ago, as I walked home with Sharon near the local train station, a well-dress lady called out in Japanese, ‘Santa-san, do you have a gift for me?’ Normally this would be quite unusual for a Japanese, especially late at night on a dark street– perhaps it was because we were wearing Santa hats.

‘Merry Christmas’, I replied, offering her a printed Christmas message.

She looked curiously into the bag I’d pulled it from.

‘Christmas music CDs’, we told her– and she wanted one.

Then Sharon told her of the special gift that we love to tell everyone about– Jesus’ love for her– and prayed with her. Tears glistened in her eyes as she thanked us and told us how her Christian mother had daily prayed with her as a child. Later, she phoned us to say she’d arrived home and was listening to the CD– and she thanked us again– asking when we can meet.

It’s these kind of memories– and many, many similar ones, that will come to mind over the next few days as I take some time to rest and reflect before the New Year.

‘Wow– another Christmas has passed’– and I’ll thankfully review all the Christmases– all the years and all the loving and all the loved ones and cherished memories– that have gone before– the beautiful times that help made difficult or sad times seem– well– not so difficult or sad.

Remembering these– and you– Sharon and myself– and Naomi and Andrew wish you all a

Merry Christmas!

Please enjoy the special Christmas thought and prayer found here: http://www.activatedministries.org/activated/87.1043